Wednesday, January 4, 2012

LOVE... when the relationship goes vague...


Initial days of a relationship are blissful. You feel everything around you is so beautiful and everything happening with you is so perfect. But gradually things change. For days and days you just wonder what went wrong. Yes, I’m talking of that period when all the initial excitement in a relationship has faded.
You are past bending over backwards for his every little need, you get over daydreaming of various scenarios of the future, you get over marveling the way his melting brown eyes seem to twinkle at one of your inside jokes. When he is done wearing crisp shirts and reverts back to his grunge look. When he is past prioritizing you in his world and starts becoming vague during one of your endless yakking sessions. The seemingly endless hours on the phone starts dwindling to just an hour at night.

That’s when the real mettle of the relationship is tested.